Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Over Protection = Harm

It's natural for parents to protect their children, but they shouldn't be overprotective.
Loving the children in excess will just make them become dependent on their parents and don't know the ways of the world.
Every child will grow up, they might become weak and fragile.
They might be easily defeated by frustration, depression or disappointment.
They might not afford to endure any trial or refusal...

Dear all daddies and mummies, if you're impossible to take care of your children for their lifetime, you've to train them to be independent when they're young.
The world is cruel, those on the outside will not love or care your children as you do. If you really wanna protect your children, you've to let them contact with the community and make them understand the methods to survive in this crude world.
Otherwise, you may regret when you find out that your over-protection harms your lovely children, you make them can't accommodate themselves to the society. That'll be too late to help your children then.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Dear Girls

Finally, my mid-term exam has over.
Hooray!!!
Actually, I wasn't really being under stress in last 2 weeks.
If not, I won't keep playing online games. ^^
The first thing I did after the exam was online searching for a song which I didn't know the title or singer.
I heard this song on the radio while I was driving yesterday.
That was the second time I listened to it and it made me feel so depressed.


I've Never Been To Me is an old song written by Ron Miller, Kenneth Hirsch and performed by Charlene Oliver née D'Angelo in 1982.

Girls, always remember that we shouldn't lose ourselves in the process of finding love.
We have to love and accept ourselves before we learn to love somebody, 'cause without that, nothing else matters.